On being Feared

[Icelander]

Originally Posted by David Johnston2

If the difference was a significant one rather than just flavour, then Feared should probably be worth less than Respected.

Exactly.

The way to represent Reaction Bonuses which only apply a part of the time and/or have significant negative side-effects is to use Limitations designed for that purpose (which really ought to have been in Social Engineering). While most of them cost 5/level, any specific downsides ought to be balanced by upsides that Charisma doesn't have.