Need help fighting the dreaded MinMaxer.

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Originally Posted by Mailanka

I worded my phrasing as politely as I would put it in real life: If they clearly aren't a good match for the session, then I will tell them so to prevent both of us from wasting our time. If they don't understand, then I will more clearly iterate that they are not invited to the game. I don't subscribe to the geek fallacy that exclusion is a dreadful sin. If someone won't fit, someone won't fit.

Okay, yes, we're in agreement. And there are intermediate cases where you have to be firm, but if you are, they'll be okay.