[SonofJohn]

My Take on aGoT status


8 King of Westeros
7 Great Khal, Ruler of major Citystate/Freecity, Hand of the King(disputable)
6 Warden of <insert here Direction> (Starks, Lannisters, Aeryn and Tyrell),
Major Khal, Ruler of a minor citystate
5 High Septon, Lord of a major house(Tully, Greyjoy, Martell), Khal
4 Lords of major Bannerhouse( Frey, Boltons), minor Khal, Member of the
small Concil (if not otherwise higher in Status)
3 Lords of an avarage Bannerhouse ( Umber, Karstark, Clegane),
great maester
2 Landed Knights (Mormont, Blackwater, Baelish)
1 Hedge Knights, Maester, Guild Masters, Septons
0 Smallfolk, Men of the Knight Watch
-1 Unfree/poor Smallfolk, Clans of the Moon
-2 Whores,
-3 Slaves
-4 Outlaws, Wildlings

Members of Great Houses have the Lordsstatus -1

In my Oppinion any Stark gets the Lannisters as enemy after Ned gives Cersei a ultimatum, you could argue that the Starks are actually at war with the Lannisters who simply protect there interests ... but they are Enemys as soon as Cat thinks Tyrion tried to kill Bran.